Painful Sex »

… the pelvic floor go into spasm. This causes pain, both superficially and deep inside.

  Allergic reactions – to the material of some condoms, spermicide or contraceptive creams, and devices used for contraception or sex play.

If sex becomes associated with pain of any degree, then it may recur in anticipation of any sexual activity even when the original cause has been dealt with. Any pain should be discussed with your doctor who will take the action necessary to try …

Excuses/Answers for not using Condoms »

… want to risk sharing STIs either, no matter how long we’ve been together.

Excuse

I’m allergic to condoms.

Answer

That’s ok, you can get allergy free ones, known as latex free, they are available free from the C Card Scheme.

Excuse

I really don’t want to use condoms.

Answer

That’s fine, we don’t have to have penetrative sex then, there’s lots of other stuff we can do.

Excuse

Oh, do you think I’ve been sleeping about then? Don’t you trust …