Whatever you choose to call yourself all these feelings are normal and healthy. It’s worth mentioning that these feelings sometimes change at different times in your life. Some people don’t realise they are gay, lesbian or bisexual till they are much older. Others know from a very young age.

For people who are not sure about their sexual attraction, it can feel really difficult and confusing. It’s always easier to talk through these feeling rather than go through it alone.

If you feel the need to talk about sexual attraction with someone you might want to contact one of the services listed in the Sexual Health Services section of this website and have someone go through it with you and be sure that it will be kept confidential.